Poetry By
Jordan Legg
Published on: 11/13/2013
Father
I've never been very good at calling You Father. It's nothing personal, I don't think; it's just that I've never seen You as the kind of person who works 9 to 5 at an engineering job and then commutes home to rant about incompetent coworkers, or the kind of person who spends hours in the basement, fixing bicycles. I've never seen You as the kind of person I can beat in a hearty game of Fifa 2003 over and over and over again, only to be answered with a late-night living room checkmate that regresses to the move where my knight took Your bishop, so that we can see that I'll never beat you at this ancient sixty-four acre game. I've never seen You as the kind of person that likes campy 80s science fiction movies based on campier newspaper comic strips, or the kind of person who takes his son to Niagara Falls because the son never went on an eighth grade field trip. I've never seen You as the kind of person that insists on wearing a horrible moustache or bumming around the kitchen in a bathrobe on Saturday morning cooking pancakes, or reminding his son that when he was two he made a concentrated effort to kick down all Dad's sandcastles, and it's only by grace that he doesn't do the same thing to the drippy little masterpiece that stands on the Lake Huron beach. I've never seen You as the kind of person who insists to an arrogant sixteen-year-old that he knows a thing or two about women, And it's okay to admit that you're feeling confused and alone, even when that sixteen-year-old doesn't want to hear it, or the kind of person who rushes his son to the hospital because he fell twelve feet face-first onto a barn floor of solid cement. I mean, I already had someone to do all that. And then he just kind of disappeared. And then somebody took me out for coffee one day, and she said, "God will be your Daddy now." I guess that's why it came as such a surprise to me when it turned out to be true. And then I began to see You as the kind of person who applauds a poorly written rap song by a musically challenged teenager, or gives him just enough strength to stand in the middle of a world that doesn't quite get him, or whose wisdom is just enough to channel through to the sobs of a broken-hearted girl just to say "I'll love you even when they won't." I began to see You as the kind of person who suggests that he and his son do something crazy in the middle of Pearson Airport, or pays for post-secondary tuition with the best summer job his son ever had, or summon a grass roots movement of young men who are ready to take on the world together. I began to see You as the kind of person who loves his son despite the mistakes he's made and the cousin he betrayed and teaches him to be grateful for all the good things he's had and felt and done with a barely audible whisper that echoes, "Be strong" from the Northern Ontario wilderness to the pavement on the Windsor riverfront. So thanks.
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